Over 226 million memorials created by the community since 1995. "Find a grave.com photographed my 6 year old daughter's headstone and put it online," wrote the user. Please contact Find a Grave at [emailprotected] if you need help resetting your password. Anyone else wants to make "corrections", like a bored housewife, YOU get to decline. I am sorry that your loved one has passed. ----- And as far as "trampling on a grave" I am ALWAYS careful to NOT step on any grave (provided there's still any indication of one) and use my zoom lens instead. Your second argument of unknown dispositions do not make sense, especially in the cases of my and Eddie Jones' Reviews. They are by states of where the person was buried. So any suggestions? Well then I emailed Running Deer to let him be aware that this is my nephew, and that I didn't disclose that at first because I have caught him at this before. I know this might be making some of you angry and further irritated with us "disgusting gravers", but the reality is no laws are broken by taking a photo of a headstone. Once you r booted out the personal data is cateloged and deceased loved one is rebaptized into the Mormon faith. I wish you good luck and I hope they've taken it down, I sincerely apologize for what you must be/have been going through/went through. I probably could get it back if I bought Megan Heyl a cart load of cheezos. things I will never get back now. He then served for four and a half. 42.5k. Man it's their photo not your photo. I take GREAT pride in linking people with their deceased family members to connect these families, piece them back together, after death. Desired outcome: i was disappointed because i have been looking for his interment for years but i was even more disapointed when the owner of the memorial refused to change the listed cemetery i emailed find a grave about this and it took them 1 month to respond they told me that if i could not prove they aren't buried there then they will help. I have a good clue who is doing this to our flowers we leave on confederate veterans memorials. Search 502,691 cemeteries in 243 different countries. Thanks for your help! There have been 250K claims filed against the government. I can still look at stuff, I just cant add anything, correct anything, or do ANYTHING at all. My Find a Grave ID is: [protected] Somehow my email address was changed and I am no longer allowed to sign in as info comes up "does not match" I have written to Finda Grave many times requesting a correction. All because they are not respectful of families and not responsible for the content. I respect a families wishes whenever possible but in this instance it appears it was his daughter wanting it removed although her siblings wanted it to stay. I want to RIP. Sure, sure if you're anal enough to enjoy all that cataloging and picture takin, etc then fine, but your getting screwed and smiling about it Might want to learn some self respect. Many Find A Grave ghouls r also members of ancestry . Please DO NOT add attachments that contain your or other peoples personal information, if you dont want it to be visible to the public. Caleb, Mikenna, Amber are sending me emails asking to send them names and numbers of all my dead family and my parents and siblings names, I think they are doing this to find info on them and steal them from me. I have contacted them and they refuse to remove it. Maybe a mom from my father who died 1974. I am absolutely revolted! Many memorials are created with information about survivors. everyone should be equal and should have privacy. Contact Us - Find A Grave Contact Us We'd love to hear from you. everyone wants the records to be as correct as we can get them! Second, for anyone on here who has lost a loved one and finds the work we do (freely without pay and out of the kindness of our hearts most of us anyway) "disgusting, or that it infringes on your privacy, copyright laws and personal property", I am sorry that you feel that way. Sometimes if you initiate polite conversation, they will comply or explain why they won't. FuryH, cemeteries found within kilometers of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. All the information I had compiled on John Hanson Gassaway2 . and your account will be suspended. God bless you all ! With no regard for the family Megan Heyl also added time sensitive material that is really none of her business i.e. If someone complains about an individual contributor to Find a Grave, Find a Grave will pick on that contributor through the use of some type of monitoring technology. FINDAGRAVE and ANCESTRY.COM are owned by the same people. I have contacted the prosecutor and state police. Megan Heyl to give my son back. i added family memorials for genealogy purposes so that future generations would easily track ancestors. I thank them for their time and move on. NO I DID NOT! Do you want your child forgotten? The pay version is a one time 30 bucks. Not true. It was not put here for it to be a tug of war or a battleground everyone must follow the rules and regulations and not step on anyone's feet. I got threatened with police action because the evil administrators refused to give my account back after it was removed. It is invasion of privacy, and simply does not follow any morals. I noticed that this "TeeJLee" person likes to read reviews from complaintsboard, take out a small piece of the review he doesn't agree with or can easily rebute against, and reply to the reviewer's complaint with full-out nonsense and insult. Now the problem is that you don't have an account so there's no where to transfer the memorial to. It all boils down to how well you play with others. But why bother. It requires patience. Approximately 1 Reports Found. We welcome you to Grave Matters. It should be "well I've got more than you do" what are you 5? A Grave .Com ? I had been a member for several years. Solution: Make a new account, follow the rules, and be nice. Action, and change of name on Memorial or transfer to myself so I can put pertinent information on the Memorial. Action, and change of name on Memorial or transfer to myself so I can put pertinent information on the Memorial. E arlier this year, a distraught parent posted on Complaints Board, a third-party review site, that they'd made a horrifying discovery: their six-year-old daughter's headstone had been photographed and posted on Find A Grave without their knowledge. 2. My advice.. deleting precious hard work that someone has done is very disrespectful. The faithful go there to have extended families, extended spouses and an eternity of children/ For those who don't make it there a lower levela work camp of sorts kind of like a purgatory. Several plans available. Then someone sends a correction I will ask if they are family. dead people have no privacy (when people die privacy is gone) it's not right. Find a Grave states that this is against their guidelines. I think it's very selfish to want to keep them to yourself. You wrote: Well, Sharon Haywood, many of the volunteers here don't even hold an ounce of respect when they do this. FindAGrave Administrators- Caleb, Mikenna, and Amber. I can see that people have different points of few, but some posts here have been rather tackless, almost cruel and cruel. Salt Lake City UT. If you notice a problem with the translation, please send a message to [emailprotected] and include a link to the page and details about the problem. I have had Bios i wrote stolen and posted elsewhere with no mention of me writing those. You create a Memorial for a deceased loved one. However, there are two key areas where FindAGrave could be made better and should be made better. Share your photos and videos with others to prove the truth of your words. Then why do you think they have the Burial Unknown Mechanic, Lee? "Tom" Carpenter, age 84, passed from life to eternal life on Wednesday. This includes both general and info of a more private nature that most families do nor want published on the net. I would email the cemetery asking if they could please verify whether or not John Flint, birth date-death date, is indeed buried there. Youll find helpful information about your account here or you can use this form to send us questions about account issues. The fact alone that you are completely disregarding this mothers concerns shows how much you actually care. She flatly refuses to give it up. I am not dead, yet! If someone was cremated and the ashes given to someone, there is no cemetery. but you know sir. Wowmost of you really need to get a life. Most likely FindAGrave will also threaten u with law enforcement for stalking in addition to legal action. Because all of a sudden there's a name on my Google profile page with my Name ( it has a couple ofe letters that R not the same spelling).This woman that passed born in 1901..died at 94. #HYPOCRITES, Desired outcome: Historic Oakland Cemetery TAKE IT DOWN you ###! Desired outcome: Search famous graves, newly added graves, most popular graves. they will ban her. You must ask permission from the deceased person's family before you take those headstone photos. Find A Grave is eventually going to be sued and it will undoubtedly take down the site and their business. This is stealing/theft/vandalism. Why do you care so much? the important is all funeral and headstone photos must be authorized and legitimate and the owner let you use. Transfer management of my grandparents memorials to me, their granddaughter. Click here to get notifications about new complaints of Find A Grave. This is an ethics issue here ! If a family member has asked you to remove a memorial, than you do it. It shouldn't be about having 7, 000 memorials, nor should anyone "own" a cemetery (I had an issue with a woman over that as well and finally decided the hell with her, if she didn't have one of the people buried, than I added it). I wanted to create a memorial for my grandfather and grandmother on Find A Grave. To a point, I don't blame him. My heart goes out to you. I couldn't care less about the number of memorials I create (you refer to these as "points"; I assure you, they are not); have GREAT empathy, compassion and respect when it comes to the dead, and certainly don't chase bodies. Im of southern heritage and I'm betting nearly 50 percent of Ancestry.Com's paying customers are too! Best wishes, Why would anyone think it's OK to post biographical information like this about an 8 year old? Please wait a few minutes and try again. My sister's children are in their 20's they do not want to go to or see her grave. On the Obituary for Stacy Bradburn Billings [protected] the person has inserted a picture of a person Stacy Bradburn who is still alive. Resend Activation Email, Please check the I'm not a robot checkbox, If you want to be a Photo Volunteer you must enter a ZIP Code or select your location on the map. Being a republican or democrat should have nothing to do with findagrave and southern history of our confederate veterans memorials. Speaking for myself the answer is NO. For immediate removal: Please remove Memorial #[protected]. I hope in the near future that there will be a legal challenge to ### as to whether they have a property right to post gravesites without permission for those who have passed away "after" a set period of time, similar to release of census records. Get a life. Finally, ### is neither all bad or all good, but some issues need to be addressed in civilized matter and in fairness to all users. There is a process to get memorials transferred. I was born in 1978 but sorry for your daughter. In other words, if the contact person is "not accepting messages, " and they do this intentionally, you won't be able to reach them, to request management control. This is totally wrong. Totally agree. It is in fact not precious hard work, it is simply walking around and taking pictures of graves. Found more than one record for entered Email, You need to confirm this account before you can sign in. R.L. Mormons believe u enter the after life based on "works" namely procreation, In life Mormons collect huge volumes of data. Manager bases their reasoning for not correcting this on a cemetery advertisement that was below my loved one's obituary and responded that "you don't know what you're talking about." they think that, if your photo is put there, you will die fast. The free plan is basic. A findagrave monitor is removing our confederate veterans tokens of respect and replacing them with hideous looking fake purple violets. There are spelling errors and incorrect info. And sharon shout out loud "this is my precious hard work" Fire Sarah, the evil administrator who removed my account, and threatened to have me arrested because she refused to treat me the same as other members. Truly pathetic. cemeteries found within miles of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. I am the last of my family and I even submitted a copy of my birth certificate showing relation. information was given on three people is on people that are still alive ; so cause of death listed incorrectly, since people are still alive, not d e a d! There is a problem with your email/password. Within 5 kilometers of your location. When I add names, etc. My condolences to you and your family. What they do believe in concerning an after life is an eternal plain that is tended by a mother and father God. Open to both member questions and member answers. how many tomb photo taken is no longer a meaning anymore. Hey James, My older brother was put up on findagrave without my family's permission, which my mother found out about years ago, and she wasn't given a reply when she requested to have it removed. Bill Sky-Eagle. ^^^^^Seems to me that they are taking advantage of the people doing the photography. Findagrave is gross and obscene. especially towards Chinese superstitious people. Consider it a blessing. Whether that is seen in person or photographed and posted online, I guess I don't see the difference. Ancestry has SO many complaints already, they don't want any more. Personal Services: Find A Grave. Choose a topic below to begin. Unless you really know that person, u can directly share or steal. It is both hurtful and embarrassing to family members. Are you going to say "facebook is public, not yours. Wasted my timeFind A Grave has changed a lot since it changed hands. Find a Grave uses volunteers to assemble burial/body disposition details about individuals. Search consumer complaints, reviews and information about find-a-grave. It is a place to record cemeteries. The one who will not relinquish my relatives said his wife is a relative, however, he admitted she is only a cousin and does not even provide relevant biographical information to their "memorials". I took a picture of that visible headstone and attach it to the memorial I did not delete someone else work that is totally disrespectful. Find and visit a loved one's final resting place anywhere, anytime. So what does that tell you about this person with over 1, 000, 000 memorials added? People add information about cemeteries to the site to help identify the final disposition information of people buried there. Please include the cemetery ID number or the URL to the cemetery page on Find a Grave. Please DO NOT add attachments that contain your or other peoples personal information, if you dont want it to be visible to the public. That is true, however I have requested several times even sent the find a grave and as you said they dont care. I have no issue with someone adding OLD graves they found while walking the cemeteries. The mechanics do not work like you were brainwashed to believe. Find a Grave used a photo of me for someone else. And whats funny is that other people have links to different websites, but my entire account was REMOVED because I added a link to another grave-locating website: Now I'm convinced that these admins are evil and favor other people! I lost my daughter in 1978. The information on six posts are false and falsely placed according to statements of family and or records listed. I am 13 years old and I understand this more than the adults doing this out of "the kindness of their hearts." i visited the cemetery he is buried at and i did not find his grave. God forbid you had a famous relative? As a result, misspelled names, incorrect dates of birth and dates of death, unrelated family members and the list goes on, are written in these memorials. A. I find the time that I put in is 99.9% of the time greatly appreciated by family that is looking to connected to those ancestors or family members that have left this world. In many cases the correct markers can't be located or definitely identified, especially when they are old. Voila! Reported Problem: Not accurate - Their data conflicts with my data. send in corrections! It is a numbers game and there is no effort put into true research, the bios are limited if they even provide one. I don't see the point in the complaint. She's also violating her fiduciary role as a "Findagrave" volunteer. son. I've done a small number of photo requests from the site at a local cemetery. findagrave can no longer secure any dead grave names. But thanks for hijacking this thread. It's bad players like these that makes you question the motives of some of the [censored] contributors. FindAGrave is LSD an extension of the Mormon Church. True Crime. They steal my records, my photos and basically my deceased family. BS..Find A Grave is a hang out for graveyard ghouls. I want to add to my comment above that it is only a numbers game with a few individuals. Spare me. This is not even "precious hard work" when you steal the headstone photo and put on your own findagrave.com I didnt even get an email from Find A Grave to warn me. I know this person and his family . She can even risk to take grave photos unauthorized I took photos and also added baby pictures to a memorial I created on FindAGrave. I also discussed talking to attorney to see if I could get some type of restraining order to prohibit my grave site from appearing on ###. At the time he was a soldier in the 26th Cameronians Regiment. What is the Find a Grave Community? so please everyone do not turn this beautiful website into a horror story. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but yes I have been there, and what your feeling now, will not be shared by other relatives 50 years from now as they look at your daughters memorial. They are supposed to transfer but don't. I cannot get back in F.A.G. They do nothing about it. In many cases these ghouls comb local obits and reprint them on Find A Grave.